Q&A: Are Divorce lawyers and divorce laws destroying America?
September 1, 2011 Categories: Personal Finance
Jason B Asked:
Are Divorce lawyers and divorce laws destroying America?
The children see their papa on weekends, Father lives in a crappy apartment in a bad neighborhood, developed other children tease Child Support surplus towards both parents, daughter badly from Gewohnheiten.Son railed against Autoritätspersonen.Gibt there a solution?
Best answer:
Answer by Beefy Cheeks
Sounds like Daddy should have hired a superior lawyer… its not the lawyers fault he’s a deadbeat papa and their kid is retaliating. Blame the 2 people who broke up the marriage, not society.
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thats America
Stereotype much?
That is so not true for the majority of divorced families.
No it’s not the laws or lawyers. It’s the divorces themselves.
Would it be better for the child to grow up in a home where all the parents do is bicker at one another? While one parent may not be around all the time it doesn’t necessarily mean that the kid will grow up to be like you’ve said.
Divorce is merely a symptom. The cause is far deeper reaching. It falls to the very core of the American Belief system. Our morality is compromised more and more each year. Marriage is not so much a bond of life and love anymore, as it is considered a legal union. You cant blame a lawyer or a law for your wish to divorce, he is simply the tool for the job.
This is not how it is for everyone.
My dad had a decent apartment in a nice area. Eventually he bought a house with someone else.
No surplus here.
I didn’t resent anyone.
I did not develop bad dating habits.
My brother did lash out, but that’s just because he was immature.
The solution is: people shouldn’t get married for the wrong reasons. And they shouldn’t give up so easily when things get tough.
thats…not always the case. maybe he shouldve hired the lawyer that wasnt a lazy azz
yes keep your pants zipped and women keep they legs closed and stay together for the kids!
seems like whoever can afford the better lawyers seems to win the battle… my friend just got divorced, and her lawyer kept pushing her to keep on going after more and more money from her ex. she herself kept telling the lawyer that she was happy with what they settled with… that is how lawyers make their money, they don’t care…
No it’s not divorces and laws destroying America! If DAD hadn’t have cheated, he could see his kids every single day! If Dad hadn’t of cheated he could live in the nice house the family bought! As long as Mom is supplying a home, food, clothes, insurance, utilities and transportation, how do YOU know where the child support goes? So she made the house payment and paid all the bills with HER money, she can spend the child support then on whatever she wants or needs, that’s how it works. IF Dad hadn’t of cheated, all the money would be going to support the family! Yes the kids are the ones that also pay for Dad’s mistake! Daughters develop bad dating habits weather there’s been a divorce or not! Yeah, it’s normal for boys to lash out even in families without divorce! So no it’s not the attorneys or laws, doing it, it’s MOSTLY MEN AND THEIR INABILITY TO STICK TO THE COMMITMENTS THEY MAKE!!!!!
No–it’s DIVORCE itself that is destroying America’s society.
To avoid this, people need to take marriage seriously, treat their spouses with respect, and forget divorce as an option.
The fix is in! Repeat these 3 words, frequently and daily:
NEVER
GET
MARRIED
That and a million other things. Rust never sleeps.
Here’s my perspective, and mind you I am a woman who has never been married:
The ex-wife brainwashes the kids to hate their father
The ex-wife gets to keep the big, fancy house with the new boyfriend that the ex-husband pays for
The ex-wife shops at expensive stores for new, sexy clothes the child support goes toward
The kids would rather have both their parents back the way it was before the divorce
The daughter gets pregnant at 16 because mom wasn’t around to raise her (AKA Sarah Palin)
The son ends up using drugs or drops out of high school because his dad wasn’t around enough
The solution: Know your potential spouse before you marry. Share the same Religious and Political views. Believe in the sanctity of Marriage.
Divorce attorneys get rich off the ex-husband’s income. Men are not treated equal in this respect.
Simple, Bird Nest Custody
http://bird-nest-custody.dads-house.org/
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Find a family counselor that specializes in Systems Therapy. All behavior is purposeful and has a “payoff” for the person exhibiting the behavior.